Are you ready to replace disconnect in your relationship with lasting love and happiness?
In all of my years as a psychologist and relationship coach, I’ve found that every couple experiences challenges along the path of creating deep, lasting intimacy.
The trouble is, most of us have no idea how to deal with these challenges in a way that helps our relationship to survive and thrive, which leaves us feeling pained, lost and confused as our relationship slowly drifts apart.
Let’s see if any of this sounds familiar:
- You’re sick of having the same unpleasant conversation over and over, with no resolution, improvement or understanding. For some reason, you just can’t seem to get on the same page.
- When you’re stressed, upset, or feeling vulnerable, you or your partner withdraw or shut down – right at the time when you need each other’s support the most.
- Even with your best intentions, small disagreements blow up into bigger issues, leaving you feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, frustrated, angry, and alone.
- You and your partner are not as close and connected as you would like to be.
- You don’t enjoy play and sexual connection as easily and deeply as you wish you could.
- You worry about your relationship becoming too comfortable or stagnant, and losing its passion and excitement.
- You don’t feel confident in your ability to create and keep the deep, loving, safe and meaningful relationship you long for.
- You’ve tried to figure your relationship out on your own, but nothing has worked.
If any of these statements resonated with you, you’re not alone. It’s completely normal to have difficulties while navigating the path of long-term intimacy, and it isn’t your fault. I don’t want you to feel ashamed, or like you’ve failed in your relationship.
If you want to feel happier and more confident in your relationship, to experience joy and fulfilling love, and to break free from the negative patterns that are sabotaging your partnership, you’re in the right place.
Whether you want to strengthen a relationship that’s already good, or you’re struggling in a relationship that’s a far cry from the amazing love you dreamed about, this program will give you what you need to create a secure, lasting connection with your partner.
I know how much it hurts when your love turns into disconnection and loneliness.
Years ago, I had a budding attraction with a man I knew from the gym. Whenever we would run into each other, there was a deep chemistry, yet the timing was never quite right for us to explore our connection.
One day, we happen to be at the gym at the same time. He waved to me and motioned from me to come over to where he was lifting weights. We talked for awhile, and there was a wonderful openness between us. Then, he lifted his foot onto the weight bench in front of me, and I felt an electric sensation run through my whole body.
From that day, we started a beautiful romance. We enjoyed shows, dinners, trips, hikes, concerts, and all the juicy stuff in between. Emotionally, mentally and physically, our connection was off the charts. I’d found the type of love that I wasn’t sure existed – the kind movies are made of.
We both believed that we had found “The One.”
But within less than a year, things started to change. We began to argue and disagree about things. We would spend hours hashing out our concerns with no real resolution. It was exhausting.
Even though it was painful, we began to emotionally disconnect from each other out of self-protection and self-preservation. I was scared, confused and hurt, and he was hurting too. The relationship that had once been so amazing wasn’t working anymore.
This downward spiral continued for months. We tried to find help, but nothing gave us the support and guidance we needed. We began to question our relationship, and we were devastated and crushed. My stomach was in knots, and I felt afraid and ashamed.
I kept wondering, What do I do?
At the time, I was finishing up a master’s degree in counseling psychology and was applying for a Ph.D. program in psychology. Throughout most of my life, I have been exposed to various types of personal growth work.
And yet, here I was: dumbfounded, perplexed and confused.
In desperation, I began to read self-help relationship books. I started practicing what I was learning, and it was helping some. But it wasn’t enough.
In the end, the relationship fell apart, and we went our separate ways. Had I known what I know now, we could have had a different outcome.
But the blessing in all this pain is that it set me on a path of deep study. I devoted my dissertation research, clinical training, and experience to answering relationship questions, like: what does the path to a fulfilling, lasting, remarkable relationship look like? How do you cultivate and maintain authentic and passionate love?
Through my rigorous study and years of research, I discovered the key principles and practices to creating happy, healthy, lasting love.
As I applied all of my discoveries to my own life, I was able to build a deep, meaningful, and growthful relationship with my husband. I am beyond grateful for the trust, intimacy, and connection that we share together in our relationship.
Since then, I have been committed to helping educate, coach, and support couples in improving and strengthening their relationships. I don’t just want to help couples get out of painful dynamics and get to a baseline of health and functioning. I want to help them create profound, authentic love, and keep it for years to come.
Therefore, I focus on helping couples create the best relationship they possibly can: a conscious, co-creative relationship that isn’t merely good, but that continually becomes more and more remarkable over time.
I’ve helped hundreds of couples to not only save their relationships, but to create an amazing level of love, understanding and connection that had once did not seem possible.
Today, I have two graduate degrees in psychology, two coaching certifications, and over 20 years of experience in helping clients transform their lives and relationships.
I’ve mastered the art of translating my knowledge and observations into specific actions and principles that my clients use to dramatically improve their relationships. One of my greatest honors to help couples move from confusion and heartache to clarity and authentic connection.
On top of helping hundreds of clients create happy, healthy love, I continue to practice the principles in my own life. My husband and I continue to deepen and expand our love. Our relationship continues to flourish and develop in beautifully enriching ways.
How did we do it?
I’ll give you a hint: it wasn’t simply by being in love.
They say “love is all you need” – and they lied!
People and pop culture tell us that it’s easy, that love is all you need, and everything else will work out… but as you’ve probably realized this is not true.
Building an intimate relationship that lasts long beyond the honeymoon phase is one of the most challenging things we will ever do.
According to the American Psychological Association, half of people marrying for the first time end up divorced. And of those who stayed married, many are in unhappy marriages.
If this was something you could easily do on your own, more people would be doing it!
To be authentic and vulnerable, to risk opening up our hearts on increasingly deeper levels, and to let go of our old patterns, habits and expectations to make room for something greater isn’t easy, nor is it something most people are taught.
Relationships fail because partners lack a vital set of skills.
Many people have no idea how to create a healthy relationship that can stand the test of time.
All too often, we have no good examples, education, role models or training to prepare us to handle the intense emotions, fears, challenges, and intimacy that we experience in romantic relationships.
The deep connection of a romantic relationship often stirs up old wounds and patterns, and working through these pains and dynamics can be a messy and confusing process!
To make matters worse, pop culture feeds us a variety of dangerous myths that distort our view of relationships. Myths like:
- Love is all you need for a great relationship. Relationships are not supposed to require work.
- Conflict is a bad sign. If you and your partner have conflict, something is wrong.
- Time will resolve challenges. One day things will get better.
- In a loving relationship, you are supposed to feel good all the time. You shouldn’t have to deal with feelings of upset, vulnerability, or fear, and if you do, something is wrong.
- If your partner cares about you enough, they’ll figure out what you want. You shouldn’t have to tell them what you need and want.
Contrary to these popular beliefs, the skills required to create and maintain a great relationship aren’t innate, and we don’t gain them automatically when we fall in love.
But they CAN be developed.
Just because your current way of doing things isn’t working, that doesn’t mean your relationship is doomed, that you have to struggle in silence, or that you must settle for a dull relationship where you quietly give up on the love and life you’re longing for.
No matter how long you’ve been struggling or how hopeless it seems, you CAN build the relationship of your dreams!
Imagine if, you could:
Experience profound joy, fulfillment and connection together, and continue to trust and feel confident in each other.
Approach sensitive conversations with confidence, knowing you can resolve any challenges that arise skillfully, effectively, and harmoniously.
Feel safe enough to be completely honest about your desires, preferences, fears and needs, and that your partner will do their best to understand you and be there for you.
Have more fun and flow with your partner, so that you play and laugh together easily.
Make your lovemaking fun, passionate and fulfilling, in a way that satisfies you deeply and builds the connection between you and your partner.
Be confident that you and your partner can get through challenging times together, and come out of it stronger and closer than before.
Be proud of your relationship, knowing you’re on the same page and are truly connected in a deep and authentic way.
This kind of relationship CAN be yours, if you do what it takes to make it happen.
Changing the course of a relationship isn’t easy, but research shows that couples can stay together, and formerly unhappy relationships can become more satisfying, with the help of a practical and research-based relationship guidance program.
If you’re willing to give your relationship the energy and attention it deserves, and to get the vital elements that have been missing until now, you can start to shift your relationship dynamics, and create a happy, fulfilling love that lasts.
Start creating the relationship you desire, by getting:
Knowledge of what is causing the disconnection, misunderstanding and stagnation between you and your beloved, so it no longer wreaks havoc on your relationship.
Guidance from someone who’s spent years studying relationships and intimacy, who’s created an amazing relationship, and who knows how to guide others to create a meaningful, happy, lasting relationship.
Ongoing support as you transform your relationship. Change can be scary and confusing sometimes, and I guarantee that if you don’t have this support, you’ll have a MUCH harder time putting the things you learn into practice.
A proven system, based on years of research and experience, that gives you practical tools, strategies and solutions to quickly and effectively resolve your relationship challenges.
The ability to practice new relationship principles and skills on your own schedule and within the safety of your home, so they can become a part of your life more easily and naturally.
Whether your relationship is already good and you want to make it great, or it’s struggling and you’re determined to save it, you CAN create the amazing relationship you’ve been dreaming of, and I’d love to help you do that.
That’s why I created this transformational program called Connected Couple: Your Map To Happy, Lasting Love.
This 12 module program is for any individual or couple who wants to know how to develop and maintain lasting intimacy. It covers everything you need to know to create a thriving, healthy, successful relationship, so instead of struggling alone, you can feel supported and guided.
You don’t need any special training or knowledge to use this course – just openness to learning new things, and a willingness to experiment with things you’ve never tried before.
This will affect every part of your life.
Your relationships affect every aspect of your well-being, from your happiness and self-esteem to your health and bank account. When your relationship is thriving, it brightens every part of your life!
Are you ready to break free from the negative patterns that are sabotaging your relationship, so you can feel happier and more fulfilled in every area of life?
“Before this course, we were really stuck in a painful cycle. We didn’t know what to do. We didn’t want to give up, but we weren’t sure what steps to take. This course has been amazing. The work is challenging at times, but we are definitely feeling more support and love in our relationship. We couldn’t have done it without you! Thank you!”
Here’s what you’ll discover in Connected Couple:
Here’s a quick breakdown of all the vital skills and discoveries you’ll get in the course:
Module 1: Learn how to uncover relationship expectations that negatively impact your relationship.
In this module, you’ll learn how to:
Become aware of the limiting beliefs that prevent you from creating the love you desire.
Discover the areas where you and your partner have hidden expectations of each other and your relationship, which leads to assumptions and misunderstandings.
Understand your role models and influencers, so you know what causes you to approach relationships the way you do.
Know which stage your relationship is in, so you can have a clearer idea of what to expect and how to help it progress to the next stage.
Identify your values, desires and goals for your relationship. You can’t create the relationship you want unless you know what you’re trying to create, so this vision and roadmap are vital!
Module 2: Discover how to value relationship complexity, instead of being threatened by it.
Many relationship problems are caused by the way we deal with conflict, and by our natural but incorrect assumption that our partner thinks, feels or experiences things the same way we do.
In the second module of Connected Couple, you’ll:
Discover the core issue with many conflicts, and how you can resolve them more easily with this new awareness and understanding.
Find out what’s REALLY happening when you and your partner have a power struggle, and why they’re so difficult to get out of.
Understand the differences between you and your partner, so you can avoid painful misunderstandings and so you can work together more effectively.
Learn a new way to view the differences between you and your partner, so you can appreciate and learn from them instead of feeling threatened or invalidated by them.
Gain insight into the habits and patterns that you and your partner have, and how they have a powerful affect on your relationship.
Module 3: Understand the major pitfalls in relationships.
It’s been said that “time heals all wounds”, but that isn’t true. No wound truly goes away until it has taught us what we need to know, and it won’t stop holding us back until it’s been addressed, resolved and healed.
In this module, you’ll learn how to identify:
The fears and insecurities that are keeping you and your partner from truly connecting with each other.
The natural but self-sabotaging behaviors that arise when you’re under pressure, and how to prevent them from coming between you and your partner.
The sources of stress in your relationship, and how stress plays a prominent role in your relationship.
How you or your partner may be “hitting below the belt” during arguments, subconsciously aiming to retaliate and hurt each other instead of resolving the discussion, even if you’d originally intended to stay civil.
Notice where past experiences have caused you to associate current scenarios with situations that made you scared, angry, lonely or happy in the past, so you know why you react to things the way you do.
Module 4: Develop the framework for your thriving, happy relationship.
In this module, you’ll learn how to create a new paradigm for your relationship, which gives you room for growth and authenticity and meets your unique desires, longings and needs.
To do that, I’ll help you to:
Create a mindset that supports your individual growth, as well as the growth of your relationship.
Establish a relationship vision, so you know what you want to create and experience in your relationship. This will help to take the guesswork out of your relationship journey, so you can create the love you desire MUCH faster.
Learn win-win strategies, so you and your partner can work things out in a way that makes both of you happy.
Get out of painful power struggles and unpleasant patterns you’ve been stuck in.
Nurture and build your relationship proactively, so problems and tensions don’t get a chance to build up in the first place.
Module 5: Create a solid foundation for a growthful, wonderful relationship, so you can feel secure together.
In this module, you’ll:
Identify your most important values, both in relationships and for you individually. Clarify your vision for your relationship, so you don’t feel like you’re stumbling blindly toward an unknown outcome.
Increase your sense of safety and security in your relationship.
Define your boundaries, so you know when you can say “yes”, and when you need to say “no” to avoid feeling overwhelmed, overextended, or resentful.
Make empowering agreements between you and your partner, so instead of committing to something that doesn’t work for you in order to keep the peace, you can work together to make decisions that you both feel good about. This helps to keep both of you from breaking agreements that are important to each other’s well-being, and from becoming resentful because you agreed to something you weren’t OK with.
Create a positive and mutually supportive dynamic where both partners contribute generously to the relationship and each other, and where you help each other out of love and goodwill. This inspires and motivates both partners to continue the cycle of giving, and helps both of you to consistently feel considered and cared about.
Module 6: Increase your awareness of your inner process, so you have more insight into what’s going on inside you, which in turn will help your partner to understand and support you more.
One problem many partners have is that they aren’t fully aware of what they need and desire. You’ve probably seen or heard jokes about partners who get angry at each other because “I don’t know what I want, but you’d better give it to me!”
The bad news is, that actually does happen in relationships – but the good news is, this module will help you avoid that problem by empowering you to:
Become more aware of your needs, desires, fears, dislikes, preferences and challenges, so you can communicate them more easily and effectively.
Take ownership of your needs, problems and longings, so you don’t feel powerless to get your needs met, dependent on your partner to figure it out, or let down when they misread you or get it wrong.
Develop more authenticity and transparency, so you can be more fully seen and understood, which will increase your intimacy with your partner and your love and connection with yourself.
Create a balance of intimacy and autonomy within your relationship, so neither of you gets neglected, smothered or dominated by the other, and you’re able to pursue your individual growth and development while continuing to deepen the closeness and love in your relationship.
Get continuously closer to your partner, without losing yourself.
Module 7: Restore trust and connection through better communication.
Partners typically complain about misunderstanding one another, or not feeling truly heard, seen or understood by their partner. When one partner confides in the other, most couples try to move too quickly to problem solving, and miss the opportunity to really empathize and support each other.
Empathy and support come from understanding one another more fully, and this module will empower you to do that.
Here are the skills you’ll cultivate in this module:
Communicating your desires in ways that your partner can hear, understand and respond to.
Being more present with what is happening in the moment, so you don’t get lost in negative reactions and assumptions about the meaning behind your partner’s words. This will help your presence seem more welcoming and nonthreatening, so your partner can let down their guard and engage with you more fully.
Using curiosity to help you gain new insight, understanding and perspective about your partner’s experience. Curiosity also helps to keep you from reacting prematurely, as you will be more focused on understanding your partner rather than making assumptions or jumping to conclusions.
Building a deeper connection with your partner, even during conversations that would normally push a wedge between you.
Generating goodwill, so you can suspend judgment and not jump to negative conclusions about each other. This will also help you to stay positive and trusting when the relationship or your circumstances get challenging.
Module 8: Learn how to hold onto yourself during relationship challenges.
During relationship conflict, it can be easy to get preoccupied with your partner’s needs or complaints at the expense of your own, because it can be extremely difficult to tolerate your partner being upset with you. As a result, you may find it easy to go into self-doubt and worry, or to acquiesce to things you aren’t truly OK with.
As you may have guessed, this position does not serve you or your partner in the long run.
To help you stay connected with yourself and your partner, with the goal of getting to a mutually beneficial outcome through loving collaboration, this module will empower you to:
Learn how to self-regulate and self-soothe during emotionally intense moments. Learning how to calm your nervous system will help you to see clearly and stay grounded, rather than creating distance or running away when your partner gets anxious or upset.
Develop trust in your own goodness and worth, so you can have your own back and believe in yourself, even when your partner is upset with you or pressures you to conform to their opinions and ideas.
Prepare for successful and effective communication, so you can set your conversations up for success.
Stay committed and hold your ground, even when things are challenging.
Increase your ability to evaluate, learn, and modify your approach
Module 9: Gain communication skills that put a stop to power struggles and arguments, so that you can reconcile your differences.
When you and your partner have different needs, it’s vital to find a way to reconcile those needs into a win-win solution.
If you want to KNOW that you and your partner have each other’s backs, and that you’ll both be cared for and considered even when your priorities are different, module 9 will help you to:
Learn how to create a win-win, collaborative dialogue. This type of conversation brings life, cooperation and positivity to your relationship.
Discover how to work towards repair and reconciliation when you have conflicting needs or disagreements, instead of deepening the rift.
Explore mutually beneficial outcomes by generating ideas that would work for both of you, as you work together to address your conflict.
Cultivate a deeper understanding of each other, and create space for agreements that support both partners’ unique needs and the growth of your relationship.
Module 10: Heal old wounds by forgiving each other and coming back together.
In every relationship, you will have times when you and your partner disappoint each other or unintentionally hurt each other.
For your relationship to last in the long term, it’s important to know how to clear the air and repair the hurt, so you can be receptive and open to each other’s love again.
This module will help you to repair your heart and relationship, and to keep your hearts open to each other.
Here, you’ll learn how to:
Double-check your assumptions, even if you’re sure you are right. You’ll be surprised by how often things aren’t as bad as you thought, and this practice can save you a lot of heartache.
Forgive more quickly and easily.
Establish a practice of clearing the air within your relationship, so you don’t have lingering tension and hurt poisoning your love for each other.
Find opportunities to fine-tune your interactions, so you can continue to improve and evolve your love, connection and intimacy, and communicate those opportunities without making your partner feel criticized.
Module 11: Discover how to feed the fire of your passion, closeness and intimacy.
In week 11, I’ll help you to fill your heart with the fire of connection, passion and intimacy through play, honor, and appreciation, and to keep creating fun experiences and good memories like you did in the honeymoon phase.
In this module, I’ll empower you to:
Bring more creativity, excitement, newness and fun to your relationship, so you can regain the spark and passion and fan it into an even stronger flame.
Increase your individual vitality, so you have more to bring to the relationship.
Nurture the love bond between yourself and your partner, so it doesn’t grow distant or stale.
Expand your capacity for passion and intimacy, in the bedroom and outside of it.
Module 12: Learn how to grow your relationship to greater heights, while keeping a secure, authentic base.
In this module, I’ll help you to contribute to a co-creative partnership that enables you and your partner to grow to your highest potential, as lovers and as human beings.
If you want to experience more positivity, meaning and fulfillment in your life, while keeping a safe, honest and loving bond throughout the growth process, this module will empower you to:
Be more connected and emotionally attuned into your partner, so you can be sensitive to their emotions, learn about their needs and desires more easily, and not have to guess what they’re feeling, work so hard to draw them out, or be completely oblivious to their experience.
See and appreciate the way your partner is growing and changing, and keep your connection with them as they evolve.
Expand your gratitude and appreciation for each other and yourselves, so you can feel more confident and secure in your relationship, and fall in love with each other over and over again.
Create meaning and significance in everyday moments that you used to take for granted, and experience more positivity and joy together.
Continue growing and expanding together in an authentic and co-creative partnership, so you can both become the people you want to become, and contribute greatly to the world by doing what you love and being your best selves.
Will your relationship survive the test of time?
Every relationship goes through predictable stages, yet most of us get stuck or give up in the second stage.
If you want your relationship to last, grow, and become deeper and more fulfilling than anything you’ve ever experienced, don’t leave it up to chance. Take action now.
“Happily ever after” doesn’t just happen TO you. It happens THROUGH you…by means of your desire, decisions, and actions.
I want to support you on that journey.
On top of all the valuable skills and information I outlined in the 12 comprehensive, research-based, interactive modules above, when you join me in Connected Couple, you’ll also receive:
Weekly exercises and supplemental materials that give you specific, practical ways to implement your new knowledge, so you’re never left thinking “Great – I know all this stuff, but now what do I do with it?”
Reliable, proven techniques and practices to transform your relationship and to navigate the terrain of long-term intimacy successfully, skillfully and with confidence..
Support, insight, motivation, and the accountability you need to help you stay in action and create the positive changes you desire.
Easy, convenient access to all your materials, from the privacy of your home.
A personalized learning profile, so you can easily keep track of what you’ve accomplished, pick up where you left off if you take a break, and stay focused on the module you’re currently working with rather than getting overwhelmed by the whole curriculum.
I’ve already helped hundreds of people to transform their relationships and lives through my coaching, and now, I’ve made it easier than ever to access this step-by-step transformational system.
This program is the culmination of all the knowledge I’ve gained through years of working in the field, completing my Ph.D. research, and spending tens of thousands of hours helping couples to heal their relationships.
All of the material is organized in an easy-to-use, user-friendly format, so it will take a minimum amount of effort for you to transform your struggle and disconnection into love and joy.
This program doesn’t just affect your romance. It improves EVERY part of your life!
As mentioned before, your romantic relationship inevitably affects every part of your life. That means when you learn the skills in this course, ALL of your relationships will improve.
Imagine if you could be free from tension and conflict, and feel hopeful and confident, in every significant relationship you have!
If you’re ready to improve every relationship in your life, from your partner and family to your coworkers, clients and boss, now is the time!
What other people are saying about Connected Couple:
“I am truly VERY THANKFUL for the program. It is extremely good. Again, this approach has been the most helpful we have ever had. I feel like we have actual concrete principles that are playing out and operating in our brains and the tools to help challenge them and grow. Not easy. But super good.”
“This course gave us the exact steps on how to get out of the dark hole we have been in. We now see the light, as we are getting stronger and more secure together. Thank you!”
“I feel like the class, coaching, learning points, and now awareness/tools are like a giant staircase for us. Before, it was like we were in a crevasse. It’s dark and we can’t really see, we are bumping into each other (hurting each other) sometimes on purpose and sometimes not but I feel like the class, etc is like a giant set of stairs. You’re there with your tools and teachings guiding us up each step. We may end up at a stair for a longer period of time, but each new thing we learn or try is another step toward the pretty green meadows. Going up isn’t easy, more laborious, but in the end we reach the flat meadow. So, thank you for your work and help. It is very valuable.”
“This has been the most helpful experience in our marriage. We have done couples therapy and individual therapy before. Learning these tools in this program is the only way the conflict was settled, if I hadn’t put those tools to use we could potentially still be in conflict today.”
“I can’t say enough about Dr. Jessica Higgins’ relationship guidance and advice. Her support has been instrumental and has helped transformed how I show up in my relationship. My relationship is stronger now, and I am not sure we would have had the same outcome without her knowledge and insight. I feel more empowered in myself and my relationship because of her help. Thank you!”
“I couldn’t speak more highly of Jessica. It seems a main factor in the healthy development of our emotional being is the availability of a safe space through which we can be open and vulnerable to actually do the necessary work to effect positive change in our lives. It is difficult enough to offer this space to ourselves, let alone share it with another person. Jessica manages to assist in the development of both. Through her warm, confident and compassionate presence, Jessica creates this ideal space, while her wisdom and skill assists in the development of a personal internal space of openness and non judgment where it is okay to be vulnerable, to be oneself. Simply, Jessica has helped me to honor my highest self in all that I do. And most importantly, in all that I create in this life.”
“This has been the most helpful experience in our marriage and we aren’t even done yet! I’m excited to see how our continued effort unfolds!”
“This course has given us the traction and footholds we have needed to make our relationship get back on track again. Thank you!”
“We are so immensely grateful to not be making the same stupid mistakes anymore. Finally, we are feeling stronger and closer than ever before.”
If you’re ready to experience that kind of transformation in your relationship, you can take the first step toward ending your struggle today!
What’s the investment?
Therapy for couples can cost tens of thousands of dollars. I’d like to put something into perspective. My clients typically pay $240 per hour for couples therapy. The majority of my clients stay working with me for over 6 months.
But I’m not going to ask you to pay tens of thousands of dollars. In fact, you won’t even need to pay $6,000.
If you choose to join me in Connected Couple, your investment is only $997. If you choose a payment plan, it is $387 (3 payments). This takes care of everything for the full 12 modules from start to finish.
I firmly believe that this program is worth even more than that, because instead of giving you bits of scattered information that you have to put together over the course of months or years, you’ll get everything you need to create an amazing relationship in a single, easily accessible course.
I decided to make this super convenience and comfortable by allowing you to access this from anywhere, especially from home – which saves you the drive time, travel, gas, & childcare, it’s super nice that way.
If you’re ready to get started, you can make the payment using a credit card, and there are two payment plans, so you should be able to find an option that fits your needs.
How can I be sure that this program is for me?
I want you to be sure that you’re making the right choice today. To help you do that, I’m going to explain who this program is for, who it is NOT for, and how to determine whether you have the money and time to invest in Connected Couple.
Who this program is and is not for:
If you’re experiencing issues with infidelity, major trauma, addiction or abuse, this program is not the solution you’re looking for. In these cases, I encourage you to seek therapy first, before enrolling in this program.
If you ARE feeling less connected, loved, understood and desired than you want to be, and you long to create a deep and intimate relationship that improves every aspect of your life, you’re in the right place.
What if I’m too busy to take this course?
Let me answer that question with two of my own.
First, I invite you to ask yourself how much time you’re losing each day because of the misunderstandings and disconnect between you and your partner?
How much time do you spend going around and around in endless loops with your partner?
How long do you spend arguing with your partner?
How much sleep do you lose, or how much time do you spend worrying or being preoccupied? Does being tired or distracted take away from your ability to perform at work?
Chances are, you’re losing more time by NOT taking this course than you’d spend on taking it!
Now, for the second question:
If you broke your arm right now, would you have time to go to the hospital?
If my guess is right, the things that once seemed impossible to reschedule would suddenly take second priority to fixing your broken bone.
The state of your relationship is just as important.
Sometimes, it’s easy to let things that seem urgent overshadow the things that are truly important. But if you really want your life to be joyful and healthy, your relationship to grow and thrive, and you and your partner to be able to reach your fullest potential, you must choose to make your relationship a priority.
I’ve consistently found that we have time for the things we choose to make time for. So let me ask you: do you have 90 minutes a week to devote to transforming your relationship? If so, that’s all you’ll need to put this course into action.
I specifically designed Connected Couple for people with full, busy lives. You don’t need to climb this mountain all at once – I broke it down so you can scale it one small, easy step at a time.
Even spending just one evening a week on this will make a profound difference. And isn’t your relationship worth that?
What if I don’t have the money?
As with time, you’ll often find that you have more money than you think when something truly important comes up. It’s just a matter of deciding what’s important enough.
If you needed an important and expensive medical treatment, what savings would you use, what stocks or items would you sell, or what methods would you use to increase your income in order to afford it?
Is your relationship worth that much to you?
I also invite you to ask yourself, “How much is my unhealthy relationship costing me right now?”
Is stress affecting your physical health, emotional healthy, and overall well-being?
Do you or your partner have unhealthy ways that you use to cope with your loneliness and pain?
Are you being held back in your business or career by the effects of your relationship challenges?
What if my partner isn’t willing to participate?
They say it takes two to tango – but when one person starts dancing differently, their partner has no choice but to adapt.
When one of you starts acting differently, it changes the whole dynamic of the relationship. Like a pair of tuning forks, each partner influences the other, so when you begin to become more skilled, healthy, confident and happy, the effect will impact your partner.
What if we’re already in therapy?
Connected Couple can make a great complement to your existing therapeutic practice. I strongly recommend that you talk to your therapist about this program, and see if it will support the therapeutic work you are already doing.
What if I’m not satisfied with the program?
If you start to participate in the Connected Couple program, and conclude that it isn’t right for you, you can get a refund any time within 30 days of signing up. So far, I’ve never had anybody take me up on this, because when my clients work with me, they DO see results!
It’s understandable to be afraid when you’re thinking of taking a big new step. That’s just a sign that your concerns and relationship are important to you, and it’s all the more reason to invest in something that’s clearly so vital to you.
If you’re afraid, I encourage you to take one step at a time. As you take action, you’ll build confidence, and you’ll gain the information you need to take each new step.
Is now really the best time?
Statistically, couples typically wait six years before seeking help when they realize their relationship isn’t heading in the direction they hoped for. By this time, the relationship system can be depleted, overwhelmed, and unmotivated.
Unfortunately, the divorce rate is around 50%. And only 12-15% of couples get beyond the “power struggle” stage. Many couples do not feel prepared to meet the challenges presented within a lasting, loving, relationship.
The sooner you make a decision, the sooner you can start to experience the love, connection, passion and security you desire. A small change now will dramatically improve the course of your relationship six months, a year, or even ten years down the road.
On the other hand, an issue that goes unaddressed now will only get more complicated, deeply ingrained, and more difficult to correct the longer you leave it to fester.
If your relationship has been struggling, or if you’ve been unable to bring it to the level you desire by yourself, the solution is likely to not just come about on its own. By waiting, you lose valuable time that you could have spent creating and enjoying the relationship of your dreams.
Whether you think you can create the relationship you desire, or you think you can’t, you’re right.
Cultivating a loving, lasting relationship takes effort, attention and investment, whether you choose to work with me or not.
I want to make this easy for you. Why do all the research yourself when I’ve already spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to do it for you, and compiled it into a single program that you can easily access anytime you want, right away and for the rest of your life?
You have everything to gain, and nothing to lose.
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